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Last week I was chatting with the BF about our upcoming D8 in Palm Springs when he mentioned dune buggy rides. I quickly responded with: “OH. MY. GAWD. I. CAN. HAZ. DUNE BUGGY. RIDE. PLEASE. LULZ!” Almost as quickly, I wanted to kick myself. Who am I? Why am I talking like this? And who understands me? Turns out most people probably do. Yikes.

A/W, yesterday I read the New Yorker post on the results of the first Questioningly, in which they asked readers which word should be abolished from the English language. I immediately thought of my chat about dune buggies and also about how I normally communicate. Many of the words that readers suggested are part of my everyday lexicon (it’s called the language of Forsie). Ouch. Not. Awesome. (Yes, awesome is one such word.) So I started thinking more broadly about the words that irritate me and realized that it’s not actually (FYI: another word bound for abolition) words but ABBR and emoticons! :) And I am SO guilty of both of these crimes against the English language.

IDK about you, but AFAICT we’ve become so used to chatting in 140 characters or less that we some days lose touch with people IRL. It often leaves me SMH. These days it feels like we’re rarely AFC and we’re never really AFP so maybe that’s part of the problem (oh, and “normal” peeps might think we mean Agence France-Presse when we say AFP, sigh. It’s very confusing living in abreves world). Yes, AIUI, AITYD too, it’s just easier to pop in an ABBR. Not just OOMF, but all of them, seem to understand this new language. Double yikes.

So, here’s a challenge for you. Try to live without ABBR and emoticons for a day. Or a week. Yes, I’m sure you’re LOLing right now (really though, think about it, when you write that are you really *ever* LOLing?). Or maybe you’re saying to yourself, “OMGD, WTH, IDK if I can do that. LULZ.” But that’s fine. I’m currently ROTFLOL because I’m not sure I can do it either. :/ But I’m going to try. For the good of the English language, that is, I’m going to try. Wish me luck. Oh, and OMT: MTFBWY. O/\O!

CFN.

p.s. It’s going to be 95 degrees and sunny in Palm Springs this weekend. OMW! And this post has been EFA.

(Note, I originally wrote this for my worky work blog but figured it was relevant to all parts of my life so posted it here, too!) 

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Tue, 03 Apr 2012 19:18:00 -0700 Blame it on the wind. http://forsie.com/the-bax-man-rules http://forsie.com/the-bax-man-rules


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Tue, 03 Apr 2012 18:30:00 -0700 One happy girl. http://forsie.com/one-happy-girl http://forsie.com/one-happy-girl

Every once in a while I'm inspired to write. Obvs, now is one such time. Oddly enough, it's usually around this time of year that inspiration strikes. Usually it's part of a healing mechanism that kicks in every February-ish. This time of year is rough. I suffered a lot of loss over a four year period... losing my dad in March, my brother in April, and my dear friend in May. Sure, every year it gets a little easier, but if you've ever lost someone close to you, you know that your life fundamentally changed the minute you heard the news. Now try hearing that news year after year for four years. You lose hope at some point. 

When we lost Lanny six years ago on April 8, it rocked our worlds. I definitely lost hope. But it really rocked my little brother Jamie's world as Lanny died on his birthday. And we won't ever be able to change that. But in the last six years Jamie has completely turned his life around, overcome many many obstacles, and is a really, really awesome guy. He has a smile that lights up the room and a laugh of legends. He also has an equally awesome girlfriend. And he has a dog, Jack, that I've secretly paid to torture Jamie the same way he tortured me when he was a little boy. (I'm happy to report it's working.) More importantly, Jamie is a huge part of my life and I could not be more proud of the person he has become. On Sunday, my little brother will turn 30 and my only wish is that we could be together to celebrate. But since we cannot, I will raise a glass in his honor and send lots of virtual love. Happy early birthday, lil bro. 

And while Lanny's death has certainly had a profound impact on my life, finding out a few weeks ago that he had a daughter also rocked my world. But in a very, very good way. We now have a little piece of Lanny amongst us. I had the honor of spending the last five days in Michigan getting to know my niece and to say that I adore her beyond all belief is an understatement. She's a sweet, cute, amazing little girl. And I couldn't be happier to have her (and her wonderful family!) in my life. 

I realize this might sound like it's heading down Sad Street but, rest assured, it's not. Last year I wrote that I would celebrate Lanny's life on April 8 and that I would not be sad on the anniversary of his death. Admission: I wrote that because I really truly wanted that to be the case and I thought that if I wrote it, I would believe it. It worked to some extent. You know, the old mind over matter trick. But the mind is an interesting thing... and so is matter, for that matter. And, alas, I found myself in a pool of sadness. However, this year the story really *is* different. So much has happened over the last year that I absolutely cannot help but embrace the future with an open mind and an equally open heart. And a smile on my face. 

In the last year I've realized a lot of things. I have a puppy. He changed my life in a way that I didn't think possible. He's adorable and awesome and you can't help but love him. My family is healthy. As are my friends. I'm also healthy, despite going through a fairly major (at the time) health scare last year. While bad at the time, it made me realize the need to truly live life to the fullest. And I am. I've also reunited with old friends, made some awesome new friends, and have tried to make myself more of a focus. And I also realized that I love my career more than I ever have before. My dear friend Candice has always said I was born to be in PR, and I now believe her. All of these things, I'm certain, will help shape my next five months and 40 years.

In the spirit of saving the best for last... I'm also in the most amazing relationship with someone who is truly one of the brightest spots in my life. He's smart and funny and thoughtful and caring and, more importantly, he totally gets me. Crazy, yes, but true. I couldn't be more thankful to have him in my life right now and I can honestly say that having him in my life has most certainly made me a much happier person. On many, many levels. I'm a very lucky girl. This I know. And I can't wait to see where this journey takes us. 

So, now when I say that I'm happy, I mean it. And when I say that I'm celebrating Lanny's life this weekend, I mean that, too. I'm also celebrating Jamie and all that he has become. And I'm celebrating having an open heart. And I'm celebrating life and all of its goodness. Plain and simple. 

My parting message to you this year is simple: go forth and tell the people you love that you love them. Don't wait. Give them a squeeze and thank them for being in your life. Smile at strangers. Open doors for people. Do the right thing. And find whatever makes you happy and hold onto it with all your strength. And take a little time to enjoy each moment. 

And until next time, good people, be well. 

 

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Fri, 30 Dec 2011 18:17:33 -0800 Laura and Jamie's excellent San Francisco adventure. Part one. http://forsie.com/laura-and-jamies-excellent-san-francisco-adve http://forsie.com/laura-and-jamies-excellent-san-francisco-adve

Quite an excellent day it was! A whirlwind trip through the ever-so-foggy streets of San Francisco led us to: the top of Twin Peaks (which, thanks to the fog, made a lovely white backdrop for photos); down Haight Street with a quick stop at a local tattoo shop; through Pacific Heights to see the Full House house... and a few other fabulous places; down Lombard Street... on foot!; across the Golden Gate Bridge (with a quick stop at the ever-so-popular vista point) for lunch at The Spinnaker and a stroll through Sausalito. Next up: dinner at Sam's Chowder House in Half Moon Bay and a chance for Jamie to put his toes in the Pacific Ocean

 

 

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Sat, 17 Dec 2011 09:23:00 -0800 Almost a year with the Bax Man. Loves. http://forsie.com/almost-a-year-with-the-bax-man-loves http://forsie.com/almost-a-year-with-the-bax-man-loves

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Fri, 11 Nov 2011 23:49:52 -0800 Welcome to hotel row. All mine. http://forsie.com/welcome-to-hotel-row-all-mine http://forsie.com/welcome-to-hotel-row-all-mine

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Fri, 28 Oct 2011 07:33:16 -0700 UFC: Puppy vs. Kitten Version http://forsie.com/ufc-puppy-vs-kitten-version http://forsie.com/ufc-puppy-vs-kitten-version

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Tue, 25 Oct 2011 14:19:59 -0700 Perfect little snack! http://forsie.com/perfect-little-snack http://forsie.com/perfect-little-snack

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Tue, 25 Oct 2011 12:49:45 -0700 New earrings made my someone very special. Loves. http://forsie.com/new-earrings-made-my-someone-very-special-lov http://forsie.com/new-earrings-made-my-someone-very-special-lov

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Sun, 23 Oct 2011 17:23:33 -0700 So many toys, so little time. http://forsie.com/so-many-toys-so-little-time http://forsie.com/so-many-toys-so-little-time

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Sun, 23 Oct 2011 17:22:16 -0700 Whiskey Jane http://forsie.com/whiskey-jane http://forsie.com/whiskey-jane

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Sun, 23 Oct 2011 11:05:17 -0700 A dog's life. http://forsie.com/a-dogs-life http://forsie.com/a-dogs-life

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Mon, 13 Jun 2011 11:29:00 -0700 Six amazing years. http://forsie.com/six-amazing-years http://forsie.com/six-amazing-years

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Before you get carried away, I'm not going anywhere. This isn't a farewell-I'm-moving-on-to-startup-X blog post. Instead, it's a thank you. And a reflection of sorts.

A bit more than six years ago I met someone who would become not only my future manager and my mentor but also a very, very dear friend. More importantly, six years ago today I started working with the one and only Megan Lamb. Continuing the six theme, six months later we started Cutline. In a few short months we'll celebrate our sixth birthday. It's been one crazy amazing ride to say the least, and even though I periodically complain, I've loved every minute of it. Megan has become an incredible mentor to me and every day I learn from her in ways that still surprise me. She has also become an incredible friend and an amazing one-woman support group in my personal life. For that I owe her a world of thanks but words just aren't enough. 

There are also a bunch of other folks who have made this journey even more amazing: my fellow Cutliners. Megan and I both know that we wouldn't be where we are today if it weren't for the awesome team we've built at Cutline. Every day this team of smart folks I'm lucky enough to work with inspire me, challenge me, and make me laugh. I learn from them and have grown as an individual and a professional as a result. And even though I've said amazing three times already it's really the one word that comes to mind when I think of Cutline today. It's pretty amazing. Sure, it's often challenging and some days aren't awesome but in the grand scheme of things? It's really f*cking amazing. (And if you're *really* following along you'll note that I stayed true to the six theme.) 

So, to my fellow Cutliners: thanks a ton for a great and crazy ride. Y'all kick ass and I'm honored and humbled to be on your team! And to everyone else who has played a part -- our fabulous clients, reporter friends, former Cutliners, and other friends of Cutline -- I thank you and look forward to (at least) six more years of awesome. 

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Tue, 31 May 2011 21:36:28 -0700 Quite possibly the best worst online dating story ever... that hasn't been told since 2008. http://forsie.com/55137094 http://forsie.com/55137094

dear online dating stalker: thanks, but no thanks

in part four of exploring the inner workings of my failed attempts at online dating, i thought this exchange was far too good not to share. boys: please don't ever think this type of behavior will get you anywhere. seriously.

read on for a few laughs. my treat.

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On 03/21/2008 07:07 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

Hi. You are quite attractive. Might work (?) 

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On 03/22/2008 07:58 am PDT, [I] wrote:

Thanks but I just don't think we're a good match. Take care.

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On 05/15/2008 05:23 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

You know, you are extremely pretty.

Why be dumb?

Ever been to Europe (first class of course).

Not trying to buy you, just tring to let you know "my life".

I know ther are allot of bullshitters on these sites. I am not one of them.

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On 05/15/2008 05:36 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

Oh, and hey, if you wanna pick up the check it's fine with me. Seem's like I buy for all my friends.

Hey look...if you are a real "giver", I really am a "taker", meaning I do things my way, but baby, you can/will only benefit. I take care of everyone that I like (let me know if you want "references".)

How about lunch?

FYI: 3 things I can't live without:

1):A stunning girl like you, on my arm, in a Las Vags casino.

2) Jack Daniels at 5:30pm ( while I watch the nightly news)

3) SEX (hey, I still go pretty Godamn strong...again...references available upon request).

You must be intrigued. I know if I were I woman, I would be.

Ball's in you court. Don't miss the shot !

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On 05/16/2008 09:50 pm PDT, [I] wrote:

Thanks for the note. As much as I love the idea of sharing the fun of Vegas, I'll turn 36 soon so will be out of your age range [note: his *ideal* age range was listed as 25 – 35 but he later changed it to 28 – 38]. Good luck with your search. I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding some young arm candy. :)

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On 05/16/2008 11:28 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

That age is just my "ideal". (By the way, the ex will be 37 in July).

You are stunning, and believe you me, I can show you much.

Never say never. And never pass up on a good thing.

I have a feeling we would be perfect with each other.

Hell, I might even go camping with you (bring the bug spray so I don't have a "Monk Moment".)

Just got back from a business trip to Reno. Planned on staying 2 nights. It turned into 4. I know the pit bosses quite well, and saved a few younger guys (your age) from getting into trouble at one of the tables. Nice story....I'll tell you later.

Won $3000. Didn't have any sushi, but had lobster most nights.

Oh, hell...If you want to be cuddled every night with a man that can't get enough of that, and a man that adores an extremely pretty woman that will jump on a plane in a heatbeat...well...what the hell have you got to lose...you are on this web site to basically meet a man to settle with.

Shit, I guess i can live with "kitten" as well, as long as it sleeps in the other room.

LUNCH at the XXXX???????????????? I am free Sat and Sun...and perhaps Mon. Then business the rest of the week. Look, just say yes. Sunday works best for me. You are just too cute to let go without a battle.

I can't say much more. At least you have a new friend, and believe me, I am a good friend to have.

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On 05/16/2008 11:34 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

RE: Your question: (forgot to answer your Q)

1 thing I really can't live without is your perfect smile. (I have great teeth too !)

Get back to me.

Tell me more about yourself !!!

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On 05/16/2008 11:47 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

Not trying to bug you but my name is XXX.

I haved lived in XXX for 20 years. (This is if you want to check me out....before lunch...by the way, you can pick the wine).

Sleep tight !

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On 05/17/2008 07:01 pm PDT, [my friend] wrote:

If ego had a picture in the dictionary it would have your pic. Honestly... based on your last few emails we are clearly not a match. I understand tenacity but you are over the top and probably perfect for someone other than me. 

I wish you the best of luck with online dating. 

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On 05/17/2008 07:42 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

Baby, you think you have flown, but your feet ain't left the ground !

Anyway, I bow to your convictions.

We could have had a great friendship. You have my number when you get tired of the stiff's that are on this stupid thing.

Pitty...I was thinking about you allot. Just spilt milk now.

I will never understand women. The smart one's can have anything they want. You are not only pretty, but probably smart to stay away from a guy like me.

Just be careful. When you meet someone, check them out (my ex sister-in-law is a police Lt and she told me lots of strange guys are on these sights). Ask for references, etc.

By the way, whats wrong with an "ego". I love walking into a room and "owning it".

Maybe we will cross paths again. Highly unlikely, but I never say never.

You really are a doll. Why you don't want a man like me is, well ?

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On 05/17/2008 07:55 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

Oh, and by the way. I have a feeling you will get back to me.

You are interested, no (?).

How many exciting men have you met on these website things.

I won't contact you again unless you contact me.

(Vegas this weekend...Bellagio...sounds good to me).

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On 05/17/2008 08:43 pm PDT, [he] wrote:

I have changed my mind.

How does lunch at XXX in XXX on Monday sound.

You will be perfectly safe. The owner is a friend of mine, so you can toss me into the water if you want. It would only make him laugh.

I really do want to get to know you. Friends to start.

*****

The good news about most online dating sites? You can easily block people.

The end.

 

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Tue, 31 May 2011 21:30:00 -0700 ISO: Writing inspiration. Let's start with some oldies but goodies. Online dating stories. http://forsie.com/iso-writing-inspiration-lets-start-with-some http://forsie.com/iso-writing-inspiration-lets-start-with-some

Lately I've been thinking a lot about writing more. Not necessarily for an audience but really just to get the millions of words out of my head that otherwise clog up my day. Over the years, through blogs of various forms and levels of detail, I've most definitely learned what not to say publicly. So, I won't go there. But I do remember the joy and personal satisfaction that comes with writing in any form (and the writing I do at work every day just doesn't suffice). For inspiration, I checked out some of my old blogs, forever alive on the interwebs but now private. Wow. I'm pretty funny. Ha. Especially with the mis-adventures of online dating posts.

So, for you my friends, I will share. Here's an oldie (circa 2008) but goodie, with more to follow... enjoy it you lil love birds out there! xoxo

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online dating tutorial: what not to say in an email to a potential connection... aka, don't ever say this shit unless you want to end up here

"Your main picture is funny...till u open it up it up it is all pixelated and expanded so you look like you were snapped from a fun house mirror perspective." even when this is followed by "then you open it up and dios mio, what a beautiful woman you truly are"... it's just not right. you lost me when you said it looks like my pic was snapped from a fun house mirror.

when referring to where i currently live, even if you *did* live here once before, what good does it do to add "My god this is the most boring place on the planet"? i mean, really? what if i like it here? i do, by the way.

when i say that you "must love sushi and steak" don't respond with "Can I like tempura instead and merely tolerate sushi." you can, sure, but not with me. tempura is not sushi for one. and you're already pointing out differences, so why should i even bother at this point?

"Well I just finished reading your profile, I only had to take a couple of breaks." ok, so my profile is a bit long. at least you know what you're getting. but, really, do you need to tell me that it's long? clearly something sparked your interest enough to write me. now only if you were taller than 5'6" (not that there's anything wrong with 5'6" guys; they're just not for me and my five inch heels).

on that theme, also probably a good idea to avoid "You almost lost me at the eighth or ninth paragraph." my profile is seven paragraphs. any why are you starting off our would-be relationship (friend or otherwise) by complaining? fail.

"wow!.if you dont mind what life experiences made you this way?" i can't even go there.

guys, it's really not all that complicated. keep it simple and don't be an ass. is that really too much to ask? and, to the guys who actually get it right: keep getting it right. as you can see, your competition is pretty weak. for now, i'm going to take a break from the virtual dating world which means i need to find new blog fodder. ideas?

 

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Thu, 14 Apr 2011 22:01:00 -0700 Where there's a Bax, there's a camera. http://forsie.com/where-theres-a-bax-theres-a-camera http://forsie.com/where-theres-a-bax-theres-a-camera

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Sat, 02 Apr 2011 19:46:00 -0700 It's the little things in life that matter most. Like playing fetch with a puppy. http://forsie.com/its-the-little-things-in-life-that-matter-mos http://forsie.com/its-the-little-things-in-life-that-matter-mos

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Mon, 28 Mar 2011 18:04:00 -0700 One week with Sir Baxter Bark-a-lot. And we're all still alive. http://forsie.com/one-week-with-sir-baxter-bark-a-lot-and-were http://forsie.com/one-week-with-sir-baxter-bark-a-lot-and-were

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